Every licensed funeral director/embalmer, licensed funeral establishment, licensed crematory, and cemetery shall comply with the following rules with respect to proper authority for funeral arrangements and disposition of human remains:

(1)  If a licensed funeral establishment is a party to a funeral service contract, as defined in § 5-33.1-2, for the benefit of a deceased person, only when executed by the principal, him or herself, and the contract is still in effect at the time of that person’s death, the terms of that contract shall control the nature of the funeral goods and services to be provided; the manner in which funeral services are to be conducted for the deceased; and the final disposition of the deceased person’s remains to the full extent provided in that contract. When the contract is executed by the principal, him or herself, and specifies cremation as the chosen disposition, the contract is considered sufficient legal authorization for cremation. No licensed funeral establishment, licensed crematory, or cemetery, nor any of its agents or employees, may cancel or materially alter any of the arrangements specified in that contract, even if requested to do so by a member of the deceased person’s family or a funeral planning agent designated pursuant to chapter 33.3 of this title unless compliance with the terms of the original contract would result in a violation of any applicable federal, state, or local law or regulation, notwithstanding the provisions of this chapter.

(2)  To the extent that there is no funeral service contract in effect at the time of death for the benefit of the deceased person, indicating the wishes of the deceased person with respect to the nature of the funeral goods and services to be provided, the manner in which funeral services are to be conducted, or the final disposition of the deceased person’s remains, then the funeral establishment and its agents or employees shall follow the directions of the deceased person’s survivors in the following order of priority:

(i)  An agent designated pursuant to chapter 33.3 of this title, if any;

(ii)  The surviving spouse or domestic partner of the deceased;

(iii)  The surviving adult children of the deceased;

(iv)  The surviving parent(s) of the deceased over the age of eighteen (18), or, if the deceased is a minor, and there is a custody order relative to that child, the custodial parent, after he or she signs an affidavit attesting that he or she does not know the whereabouts of the other parent;

(v)  The surviving brother(s) or sister(s) of the deceased;

(vi)  The surviving adult grandchildren of the deceased;

(vii)  The surviving adult niece(s) or nephew(s) of the deceased;

(viii)  The guardian of the person of the deceased at the time of his or her death.

(3)  All licensed funeral directors/embalmers, licensed funeral establishments, licensed crematories, cemeteries, and all their agents and employees shall be held harmless, and shall not be subject to civil suit, either as individual(s), partnership(s), or corporation(s), for complying with the provisions of this chapter.

(4)  For the purpose of this chapter, “domestic partner” shall be defined as a person who, prior to the decedent‘s death, was in an exclusive, intimate, and committed relationship with the decedent and who certifies by affidavit that their relationship met the following qualifications:

(i)  Both partners were at least eighteen (18) years of age and were mentally competent to contract;

(ii)  Neither partner is married to anyone else;

(iii)  Partners were not related by blood to a degree that would prohibit marriage in the state of Rhode Island;

(iv)  Partners resided together and had resided together for at least one year at the time of death; and

(v)  Partners were financially interdependent as evidenced by at least two (2) of the following:

(A)  Domestic partnership agreement or relationship contract;

(B)  Joint mortgage or joint ownership of primary residence;

(C)  Two (2) of the following:

(I)  Joint ownership of motor vehicle;

(II)  Joint checking account;

(III)  Joint credit account;

(IV)  Joint lease; and/or

(D)  The domestic partner had been designated as a beneficiary for the decedent’s will, retirement contract, or life insurance.